Orly Miller

PSYCHOLOGIST & AUTHOR

I am a registered psychologist working with individuals and couples globally. My clinical work focuses on emotional wellbeing, relationships, attachment, and the psychology of limerence and obsession. I am drawn to the inner spaces where longing, vulnerability, and meaning intersect, and to the ways these inner patterns shape how we love, relate, and suffer.

My approach to therapy is holistic and trauma informed, grounded in deep respect for the complexity of human experience. I work with people navigating anxiety, emotional distress, relationship difficulties, and the enduring effects of past experiences.

Therapy, as I understand it, is not only about easing symptoms. It is a process of deepening self understanding, restoring agency, and cultivating a more resilient and compassionate relationship with oneself and others.

Alongside my clinical practice, I am a researcher and author. In December 2025, my book Limerence: The Psychopathology of Loving Too Much was published by Routledge.

In this work, I explore limerence as a psychological phenomenon marked by intensity, longing, and vulnerability. The book gives language to an experience that can feel both ecstatic and shattering, and that remains poorly understood despite how common it is.

This research informs my specialised therapy pathways and my growing collection of resources, including courses, PDFs, and written reflections on limerence and emotional wellbeing.

Whether you are seeking therapy for a range of concerns or exploring limerence more deeply, this site is offered as a thoughtful and supportive space to help you find clarity, emotional freedom, and a deeper understanding of yourself.

Clinical Practice

Individual and couple therapy at my Mullumbimby room and online. We work together to navigate the complexities of attachment, trauma, and the interior landscape.

Limerence Resources

Deepen understanding through my new book on Limerence, specialised resources.