Orly Miller

PSYCHOLOGIST & AUTHOR

I’m a registered psychologist and the author of Limerence: The Psychopathology of Loving Too Much (Routledge, 2025).

My clinical work focuses on limerence, obsessive attachment, and the hidden patterns that shape our relationships. I work with individuals and couples in person in Mullumbimby and online worldwide.

I’m drawn to what lives beneath the surface of experience: the symbolic life, the emotional undercurrents, and the forms of longing and grief that resist easy explanation. My approach is depth-oriented and relational, informed by psychodynamic thinking, attachment theory, and a genuine curiosity about each person's inner world.

Alongside my clinical practice, I write about the meeting point of depth psychology, psychoanalysis, and culture. I’m interested in what it means to inhabit an interior life fully in a world that so often pulls us toward the surface.

Limerence: The Psychopathology of Loving Too Much was published by Routledge in December 2025. It gives language to an experience that can feel both ecstatic and shattering, and one that is often misunderstood or dismissed.

Clinical Practice

Individual and couples therapy in person in Mullumbimby and online worldwide.

Limerence Resources

The book, and a growing collection of resources for those living inside the experience.